Saturday, May 16, 2015

Anюta and Arosha Update

Anюta. One year, seven months.It’s been a while since I wrote anything about Anюta’s development. I used to do monthly posts with Arosha, but now I just don’t have the time or energy to do it on a regular basis.

Anюta learned how to ride a scooter a few days ago. She was really interested in scooters for a few months now. She enjoyed pushing it around the apartment and playground like a stroller, holding it backwards. She did try to ride it properly sometimes for short intervals, and during the last week she’s gotten pretty good at it. Now she can ride it around on different terrain. Of course, she is still not as good as older kids and when she needs to turn, she usually gets off the scooter, moves it in the right direction and gets back on, but still… A lot of people on playground are amused to see such a little girl riding a scooter. It’s like last summer all over again, when people kept asking me how old is she when she started to walk around at 8 months old.

Arosha really enjoys his scooter too. We bought him a two-wheeled Razor for his 4th birthday, but he still can’t keep the balance well. So in addition, we got him a Maxi Micro kick scooter at the end of January — it’s pretty much a bigger version of his old scooter, which was inherited by Anюta. Arosha’s best friend Alex has the same scooter and they ride around the playground together and do different tricks — ride with arms spread apart like wings, ride sitting on the scooters sideways, ride standing on one leg, while another one is wrapped around the bar, ride while playing some sort of soccer with the ball. They remind me of two figure skaters, gliding on asphalt in some elaborate dance.

Speaking about friends. I am very glad that Arosha and Alex like playing with each other so much. They can always entertain themselves and find fun things to do — from riding around to digging worms, to jumping from different structures on playgrounds, to devising imaginative games with rubber dinosaurs. The only time they don’t get along so well is when Simon, another one of their classmates, is present. Arosha and Simon both have a strong desire to be leaders in games, while Alex does not mind to follow their cues. Simon is a bit more aggressive than Arosha and they end up fighting a lot (while Arosha normally does not fight with other children unless they are provoking him). So when all three of them are on the playground, Simon wants Alex to play with him, and so does Arosha, and usually Alex follows Simon and Arosha is either left by himself, or they fight with Simon. So I am glad when it’s just the two of them.

Friends. Alex, Anna, Arosha.I also really like Alex’s mom, Erica. She is an ESL teacher and is currently on maternity leave. She is smart, fun and overall I find her approach to parenting to be similar to mine. She has two other children besides Alex — Liza, who is a little older than Anюta (they play with each other sometimes) and Andrew, who is 3 months old. Erica, like me, believes that kids need to spend at least a few hours a day playing and moving around outside, so we end up spending anywhere from 2.5 to 3.5 hours on the playground each day.

Anюta’s language development is progressing nicely. She repeats everything she hears, and also uses language to communicate her needs. She does not tie words together in a sentence yet, but she definitely lets me know what she wants. For example, if she wants me to move a chair away from the table so she has a space to climb on it, she says “тульчик” (стульчик), or when she wants water she says “дичка” (водичка). She lets me know when her diaper needs changing (although we still have no luck with sitting on a potty) or when she needs my help in order to look out the window. She also asks for cartoons, specific food, her scooter, help with putting shoes on, etc. She can say her name pretty well, and she knows our names too, although obviously she still needs to work on pronouncing them, especially “Arosha” (which she pronounces as “Ауо”). She likes to point on objects and name them, like bus “тёбус”, stroller “аяска”, boy “мальчик”, apple “ябака”, etc. She calls Shublik “Шуба”, which is pretty funny.

Arosha.I am still breastfeeding Anюta. Usually it’s 3 times per 24 hour period — before nap, before bed at night and once in the early morning. She is totally fine if I skip any feeding — twice Danya’s mom let us go out on Saturday a few hours earlier and put Anюta to bed without any kind of milk. I think if I wanted to stop, Anюta would be OK with it, but to be honest it gives me some peace of mind, because she does not drink cow’s milk and rarely eats any kid of dairy. Pretty much like Arosha (although he does drink cow’s milk occasionally).

Also, after vacation I gradually switched from cloth to disposable diapers. I was too afraid of eczema to switch before, but since we had zero issues with disposables on vacation, I started using them more and more after we came back home, and now I rarely use cloth diapers anymore. Which is a relief to be honest. As much as I like the environmental factor of it, doing laundry every other day for over a year (and prepping them for laundry by soaking and pre-washing in the tub) without having a washing machine at home is a pain in the neck. I am still keeping the cloth diapers just in case, but hopefully I won’t need them anymore.

And I forgot if I wrote about Anюta’s eczema, but after the course of steroid cream a while back, it’s pretty much gone. She does get a spot here of there from time to time, but I treat it right away with the same cream, and 1-2 applications are usually enough for it to go away and not reappear. I really hope it will not come back in the fall again. One time after eating mandarins she was starting to get eczema on her chin, and she actually was communicating it to me by scratching it and saying “тесеца, тесеца” (itching, itching).

Anna.Arosha started to like to draw more than he used to. I especially like his family portraits. One of the things that he did for mother’s day at school was a drawing of his mom plus a short questionnaire (the teacher wrote down his answers) . So now I know that my favorite food is “bread” and I most enjoy “read, cleaning”, and he likes it most when I read to him. Kind of sweet, isn’t it?

Arosha gets sick pretty often. He was a little sick on vacation (runny nose, cough), and in the month following it he managed to get sick twice. Ones with a stomach virus, and another with some kind of cold (he is currently sick with it). He missed the second field trip with his class (missed 2 out of 3 total) this Friday. I just hope that next year he’ll get sick less often, since they’ll have to do more things in school.

Arosha started to enjoy cartoons in English finally. Well, not all cartoons, but just Curious George. He refused to watch any English language content before, and now he asks for George every day. I am glad that he understands much more now. The pre-K is to thank for it. He still does not want me to read books in English for him, but I am not insisting too much. I think any kid of reading is good, so as long as he listens, I am glad to read in Russian. We are currently finishing the last book in “Волшебник Изумрудного Города” series, which is called “Тайна заброшенного замка”. The writing in it is worse than in the earlier books from the series, but he still likes it. I have never read it myself when I was a child (my favorite one was “Урфин Джюс и его древянные солдаты”, which I read probably 10 times), so it is mildly interesting for me as well.

Arosha.Anюta does not seem to like books as much as Arosha did at her age, but we still try to “read” books with her multiple times a day (I end up just pointing on pictures and talk a bit about what’s on them, but she turns pages too fast). Plus she also listens when I read to Arosha, although sometimes she really does not want me to do it, and starts screaming as soon as I start reading. To be honest, it really annoys me, but sometimes I have no choice but to stop reading. Sometimes she gives up on screaming when I ignore her and just keep going. But it’s an ongoing battle.

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Sunday, March 31, 2013


А мы болеем. Сначала закашлял и засопливил Арошка. Потом я. Потом Даня. Потом д. Боря. Мы с Арошкой уже ничего (есть сопли с кашлем, но терпимо), а вот у бедного Дани уже 6-й день держится температура. Он даже начал принимать антибиотики, хотя мы стараемся их по возможности избегать.

И весна у нас какая-то совершенно холодная. Сегодня последний день марта, а гулять мы до сих пор ходим в зимних сапохаг, тёплых куртках, шапках и иногда даже перчатках.

Arosha scooting away.Несмотря на болезнь мы с Арошкой почти каждый день ходили гулять. Температура у него была только один день, а у меня её вообще не было, хоть чувствовала я себя преотвратительно. Так как мне не хотелось заражать ни в чём неповинных детей на площаке, мы ходили гулять в нелюдные места, где у Арошки не было близкого контакта с детьми — например, на Plum Beach (это вместе с дедушкой, сама я туда боюсь ходить) или на Emmons Avenue покормить лебедей.

Arosha on his scooter.Где-то месяц назад Арошка очень хорошо освоил езду на самокате. С тех пор наша коляска стоит дома, а гулять мы ходим исключительно с самокатом. Я, конечно, только за, хотя в магазин за продуктами ходить нам стало значитально сложнее. Всё же езда на самокате, по-моему, намного полезнее, да и веселее для Арошки, чем езда в коляске.

Поначалу я очень боялась дорог, перекрёстков, всяких неровностей в асфальте, ну и конечно же пешеходов. Но со временем мы оба стали чувствовать себя намного увереннее. Конечно, бывают до сих пор и падения, но Арошка знает, что надо остановиться перед проезжей частью (да и я всегда напоминаю), умеет ловко обьзжать пешеходов и трещины, а перед особо большими препятствиями просто тормозит и слазит с самоката. Тормозить он почему-то предпочитает ногой о землю, и из-за этого напоминает мне фигуриста, хотя как работает тормоз он давно прекрасно разобрался. Иногда он любит ехать быстро, а иногда останавливается перед каждым домом, поднимает каждую палочку и камушек, трогает каждый гидрант и машину… Вобщем, номральный любопытный ребёнок.

Arosha, 2 years and 7 months.Иногда перед выходом на прогулку, Арошка зовёт меня:
– Ну пошли, моя красавица!

Вобщем, хочется чтобы поскорее все пришли в норму, и чтобы весна всё же началась и в нашей части мира.

Arosha near Marine Park.А еще пока Ароша болел и мы больше обычного сидели дома, мы с ним занимались разными “проектами”. Первый раз в его жизни (и первый раз для меня в Америке) мы пекли печенье. Сам процесс ему очень понравился, а вот от результата он почему-то не был в восторге. “Не нравится мне это печенье” — таков был вердикт эксперта, хотя и Дане, и его родителям печенье пришлось по вкусу.

Arosha exploring.Еще я наконец-то заказала клей и цветную бумагу с Амазона, и мы сделали с ним несколько картинок — бабочку (наклеили на неё пластилин с фольгой), веточку вербы (наклеили вату и кинву по краям), яблоньку (вырезали из бумаги траву, яблоки, облако, солнце и цветы и всё это наклеили) и рыбку (наклеили “чешуйки” из пластилина, макаронные ракушки и еще всякую всячину). Нам очень пригодился набор идей и с заготовками рисунков, который прислала Арошке в подарок тётя Люда. Арошкины работы висят у нас на холодильнике, и он с гордостью их всем показывает.

Arosha making a turn. Look at the shadow.А еще Арошка просто обожает 4-ю серию “Ну Погоди!”. Причём не весь мультфильм, а только первые пару минут. “Как волк бежал” называет его Арошка. Волк там бежит под музыку, и эту мелодию, а вернее первые три звука “па-па-па” Ароша обожает напевать во время собственного бега. В последние пару дней как никогда хочется жить в своём доме — Арошка бегает тяжело, со всей силы вбивая пятки в пол, да и кричит довольно громко. Вобщем, много такого весеья мы ему позволить не можем — соседи… А жаль.

Сегодня укладываю Арошу спать.
– Мама, а у нас зайцы водятся?
– Да. Ну, не в городе, конечно, но где-то в лесу наверняка водятся.
– Я хочу найти зайчика и взять его домой.
– Ароша, а зачем тебе зайчик?
– Морковкой кормить.
– Ну, у нас же есть Шублик…
– Мамочка, ну пожалуйста, ну давай заведём зайчика. Ну так хочется! Ну пожааааалуйста.

К сожалению, я редко записываю высказывания Ароши, но он очень рассудительный ребёнок. И говорит очень хорошо, хоть и не всё выговаривает.
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